Thursday, October 16, 2008

The perfect slipper

I have been on a search for the perfect slipper. We don't wear shoes in the house so once winter comes slippers are a necessity. Having two kids and a dog the floors get quite messy. It has been a tough challenge though since I have some specific requirements.
  • Eco friendly construction.
  • Cute enough to look like you are wearing shoes around the house but aren't.
  • Comfy enough to feel like you are wearing slippers and not shoes.
I have finally found the perfect pair. The Layaway slipper by Simple. Simple has an amazing line up of eco friendly shoes for men, women and children. You can check out the full line at www.simpleshoes.com. I will probably purchase mine from Zappos because of their super fast service.



Ok back to the Layaway slipper. I jumped with glee when I saw this slipper. It is exactly what I have been looking for. Felted wool uppers, lined in certified organic cotton knit, coconut buttons,a layered natural crepe outsole, held together with water based cements, and they are super cute to boot.

I know at $59 the price seems a bit steep. I am biting my lip as I contemplate what I am going to do. I wonder if my husband meant spend $59 when he said "buy yourself some slippers online today" as he walked out the door in response to my constant bitching about walking around in wet socks.

My thought process around it being ok is based on these facts:
  • I usually end up spending $10-$20 on a cheapo pair each year that are barely still together by the time spring comes.
  • Since I am home full time I spend more time indoors so this is the equivalent of buying a new pair of shoes for work
  • I need the slippers to be good quality with good soles since I am chasing around two kids and a dog and running up and down stairs all day.
  • Even though I am home full time I need to keep up my "coolness" factor. I can't have the UPS guy see me in pink fuzzy slippers. He might think I just sit around and eat bon bons all day. We can't have that.
I think my reasons are valid don't you? Should I get them?

Monday, October 13, 2008

Weekend wrap up.

We had an amazing weekend. On Saturday we celebrated Enzo's 7th birthday with two parties. In the early afternoon we had 4 of his friends over for a Halloween themed party. All the kids came dressed in costumes. I had made origami bats to hang on the clothes line. The best part of the party was the skeleton hunt. I bought a large plastic skeleton that had easy to remove body parts. I took apart all of the arm and leg bones which ended up being 12 separate parts. I then hid them throughout the yard and had the kids find them. Once all 12 were found we worked together to put all the pieces back on the body. It was great fun. The weather was a perfect fall day.


The kids left at 3:00 and then at 4:00 we had invited our close friends to stop by for a second celebration. This one included handmade pizza by me and some yummy VT beers. I made 6 pizzas total. The dough and sauce made from scratch. A second cake went around and everyone was full by the end. I made an apple spice cake but instead of making it a double layer I served one layer during the early party and the second layer in the afternoon.

Colorful trees in our backyard

Enzo posing in front of the origami bats
me and the boys
Skeleton scavenger hunt fun.
Cake time

Monday, October 06, 2008

Enzo Turns 7


Today we are celebrating the birth of Enzo. Today he turns 7.

7 is such a magical age. So much changes in the 7th year. In the past year you learned how to read, tie your shoes and build creations out of legos and zoobs like a pro. You are amazing to watch grow. Your mind is constantly absorbing and tinkering, building and sharing. You have changed so much emotionally too. You broke out of you shell a bit more this year and gained a lot of self confidence. I can't even describe in words how very proud of you I am.

Happy Birthday my sweet love.

Sunday, September 28, 2008

style watch

I am loving this style.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Motivating ones self while working from home can be a tricky thing. I don't have a very typical job and it doesn't have any certain tasks that I must perform each day but I still need to organize, prioritize, and get things accomplished. Now that the boys are in school I have a small window of opportunity to have child free work time each day. The window is very small. 2 hours and 45 minutes to be exact. Since I decided to have a third child this summer (aka the dog) that window actually becomes 2 hours since he requires a trip to the dog park each morning. So 2 hours to myself. Sounds like a lot but it really isn't. I try to pick one day each as my errand day. On this day I don't come home after dropping the kids off and just head right into town to do errands. I also try to pick one friend day each week. This day includes meeting a friend for coffee or some other activity following school drop off. So that leaves me on average 3 days to stay home during those two morning hours and focus.

The time is usually spent on the computer. I am not currently doing any web consulting work (hint hint) so my jewelry and book business is my main focus. I can usually be found taking pictures of products, listing products, promoting products all morning long. It is amazing how much time and effort this takes. My online marketing includes:

*my own website
*my web shop on smashing darling
*my barefoot books website
*flickr
*facebook
*myspace
*various parenting social networking sites that I blog on
*my blog


For all of these I need to upload pictures, write descriptions, update banners, widgets, promote new products, offer specials etc. This in iteself is a full time job. Which is why the 2 hours I get in the morning each day doens't cut it and this is why I am on and off the computer all day performing these tasks. Social network marketing maybe free but it sure does come with a pricetag.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Crash

So I got into a bike crash yesterday and had to go to the ER with the kids. I picked E up from school he was on his bike and I was one mine with S in the bike trailer. I was coming up on a gas station and there was a big bush that my bike got to close to and it through my bike down. The handle bar was sticking straight up and I fell down on it getting it right in the sternum. I couldn't get up and next thing I know all these people were around me and I was freaking out because I kept making sure the kids were ok and then an ambulance came and took me and the kids to the ER. The owner of the store had called. He also gave the kids some ice cream and was so nice to all of us. So were all the other people who stopped. My husband met us there after a friend who stopped and saw it all called him. They took X-rays and luckily there were no breaks or fractures and no bleeding or evidence of a damaged lung so they sent me home. I am ok but it just hurts like all heck.

It was so scary. One of my greatest fears has always been something happening to me when I was alone with the kids. They were so scared but so brave. I am so proud of them. Ironically as I was leaving the house I decided to leave my bag at home. I always bring it with me and it has my cell phone in it. For some reason today I chose to leave it there and actually said to myself "I'm coming right home after picking him up so I don't need to lug it with me." I also always have a piece of paper in my wallet that says In case of emergency call - and then I have my husbands name and number. I always felt silly having it in there but now I know why. I feel lucky that someone I actually knew stopped.

The other thing I feel lucky about is that my youngest son was in a bike trailer and not one of those seats on the back of my bike. Even though my bike spilled the bike trailer stayed upright.

So I am home now and feeling better but my chest kills. I have to take it easy for a few days and not lift anything but the scare of internal bleeding or fractures was ruled out.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

1st day of 1st grade







Well I survived the first day of 1st grade. Yesterday my oldest son started school. There was a lot of excitement and nervousness in the air. We had been going to an alternative program at another school for Kindergarten but since there were going to be dismantling the program we decided to move him into our neighborhood elementary school for 1st grade. The best part about this new school is that we can walk or ride bikes! Drop off went well. JB came with me so we could all see him off together. He seemed to do fine until we got into his class line. All of a sudden I could see the look of fear on his face. I asked him if he was nervous and he gave me a quick nod of the head. I gave him one last hug, the bell rang, he went inside, and I cried. All in all he said he had a great day. When I asked him how recess went he said he had fun but that he didn't have anyone to play with. This broke my heart. All the kids already know each other because they went to Kindergarten together last year. So he is the new kid on the block. He had so many great friends at his last school I think it is hard for him to be on the outside now. So here we are on the second day. I am hoping he has better luck breaking into some friendship circles today.

We also had a preschool open house for Sal yesterday. That was quite exciting. I can't say that I was thrilled about the room. It was stark and cold but in their defense it is a brand new program at the school and this will be the first class so I know I need to give it some time. He starts up in a few weeks. He went zooming right off to play though. No shyness in that kid.

So all in all we survived the first day. Lots of paper work to fill out, new school handbooks to read and lots of prayers that everything goes well for him this year.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

We took a quick vacation to NH last weekend. It was way too short but we had a blast. The boys look so big in these pictures. I guess they are now.
Time is flying by.




Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Sweet Product Find: The Munchie Mug

I love this! I must get one.








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Monday, August 11, 2008

Lead free lunch





School will be starting soon. I am sure many of you remember a few
years ago when lead was found in many insulated lunch boxes and
bags sold all across America. Make sure your kids are safe this year
with my top picks for eco-friendly lunch boxes.

Crocodile Creek Green Lunchboxes - School
lunches can now be more fun than ever with this beautifully-designed,
high-quality lunch box. Lunch box is 10"w x 7.5"h x 3"d. We have given
special attention to make certain that the lunchboxes currently offered
by Crocodile Creek do conform to the current U.S. & European
Consumer Product Safety Standards as well as FDA recommendations. Our
lunchboxes are child safe, with lead-free linings and are Phthalate and
PVC free. Ages 3 and up. Handwash in warm water with mild soap and soft
cloth. No abrasives or heat.

Buy these on sale at KidSurplus

Laptop lunch Kit
- Functional, reusable and fun, the Laptop Lunch Kit enables parents to
pack wholesome, low-waste meals for their kids using a very cool setup
that includes a thermal, zippered bag, a large snap-shut tray, five
FDA-approved microwave safe food containers, a sport bottle, and
stainless steel utensils. The Kit also includes an educational and
comprehensive "User's Guide," with healthy lunch recipes and tips for
reducing waste. Thoughtfully designed to cut down on the consumption of wasteful, single-use containers that inundate our school lunchrooms, the Laptop Lunch Kit promotes lunchtime nutrition
by offering parents a way to replace processed, prepackaged foods with
more nutritious alternatives. Kids love the colorful, puzzle piece
containers that fit snugly into the stylish thermal carrying case. And
like all of the products we offer, it provides a smart combination of
function, durability, style and value.
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Mimi the Sardine lunch bags - Mimi the Sardine backpacks are 100% lead-free and a safe, CEH
recommended alternative to vinyl lined bags. We love them because they
are stylish, functional, & made from eco-coated cotton that is soil
& water resistant. Plus they look great. Mimi the Sardine bags
feature fun, colorful Swedish prints that appeal to kids (and adults!)
Buy these at Reusablebags.com

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Garden update


My garden is bursting with flavor. I am growing corn for the first time, pumpkins, peppers (sweet and hot), beans, cucumbers, and lots and lots of tomatoes. I have been making home made pizza sauce, pasta sauce and salsa daily. I love summer.

Here are some pictures from my garden.
Corn



Bean tower



Harvest time




Garden friend


Sunday, August 03, 2008

Book Review: The Sun in Me


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Poems About the Planet
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From the rainforests of Africa to the mountains of Japan, Judith Nicholls brings together a diverse collection of poems from many cultures that celebrate the beauty and fragility of our Earth. Beth Krommes's illustrations of colorful landscapes, animals and people beautifully complement each poem, creating an heirloom-quality gift book that will delight children of all ages.


Sunday, July 27, 2008

hello friend


I swear dragon flies are modern day fairies. This one let me get so close I thought she was going to talk to me.

Friday, July 25, 2008

Christmas in July

Every summer I wait for my local greenhouse Claussen's to have their famous all you can carry sale. This year did not disappoint. For $50 I was allowed to load up a double decker cart with as much as I could. The plants were layered on top of each other in my car in order to fit them all. I was like a kid in a candy shop.

Here is my car packed with goodness.



I was giddy beyond belief.
So I decided to create a new garden around my once empty brick patio. I wanted to make a garden patio out of it.
I am happy with the results.

The rest of the flowers went to fill in the front yard garden I created this spring and a small one on the side of my house. I was also able to fill many pots for the brick patio and my deck. It was the perfect thing to do on our first day of sunshine in a week.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Go local

I have been on a mission to become a localvore. If you are wondering what that is, a localvore is is a person who eats only locally-grown and produced food. I am fortunate to live in a state that has a leading part in this movement. On top of of all of the local farmers, crafters etc in VT we are also lucky to have many locally owned restaurants and stores who support this effort by selling and using their products. With the oil issue being what it is now is the time to be looking inside your own state and finding what products you can buy locally instead of products that were shipped from across the country or from other countries.

Taking on this challenge hasn't been too hard. In the summer and winter I get all of my vegetables from a local CSA Farm Share and buy as much as I can locally of other products as well. My Eggs, maple syrup, butter, cheese, veggies, fruits, salad dressing and flour all come from VT. There are some things I have had to slide on. For instance I can't yet give up avocados or bananas. This movement has taught me though to shift my eating habits quite a bit. I have become more of a seasonal eater. Since I get all of my veggies from my local CSA I eat what I get from them. This means no salads in the winter because there isn't any lettuce. The summer months are filled with salads, tomatoes, squash, beans, carrots peas and greens. The winter months are filled with carrots, potatoes, fall squash, spinach and root vegetables. All foods they store all winter. I am able to get VT apples all winter too because Champlain Orchards does winter storage as well. On top of this I grow a small garden in my back yard. This year I have 6 monster tomato plants, 4 pepper plants, peas, beans, squash, corn, cucumbers and pumpkins.

Again this means shifting my fruit intake. I no longer buy apples from Argentina and New Zealand (where most are from in the grocery stores), I am trying to wean off of bananas, and I do still give in to grapes but only when they are from CA and not Mexico. I was giddy with joy when I went to the store yesterday to find organic local plumbs grown by Champlain Orchards where I also get my apples.

It is maddening to me how much of our food is produced outside of the US. Most of the big chain food stores do not list on their tags where the food is from but the local food coop that I shop at does. It is scary. VT is taking major leaps ahead in becoming a bit more self sufficient. It takes some adjustment in your diet but it is so worth it.

To learn more go HERE, HERE

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Our rescue dog journey

This is the journey we took to rescue a puppy from TN. He was left in a box with 10 other puppies on someone's front lawn in TN. There are so many dogs and mostly puppies on death row in the south due to over population. Never in a million years did we think we would do this but once we saw his picture and learned more about rescue we knew this was for us.

We worked with a local rescue organization called Golden Hugs Rescue who pays a pull fee to get the dogs out of the shelter and into foster care in order to be adopted. They then have a special transport team truck the adopted dogs up North a few times a month.

We left for NH on Friday night. We stayed at my sisters house because she lives close to where our pick up location was. On Saturday we headed to the location at 1:00. The truck was supposed to be there around 1:30 but there was an accident on the highway so it didn't arrive until 3:00. My parents met us there so we at least got to visit with them while we waited. When we got to our pick up location there were about 50 other families waiting to meet their new pets. It was amazing to see so many people waiting and wondering just as we were. Finally the truck arrived. This big truck pulled up with barking dogs who had been driving since TN. The scene was amazing. Our first meeting with Winston (now Zimo) was everything we hoped. He is adjusting well and settling into his new home. He is a doll and it feels great to have saved him.

Zimo slept all the way home from NH. He was amazing. After spending the night in the truck from TN he quietly took another 3 hour drive back to VT. Once home he had some play time in the back yard and a tour of the house but it was late so we had to get the kids to bed. He immediately got into his crate and has had no problems using it since. Amazingly enough he slept through the night. We had him in the crate in our room and we heard not a peep until 4:30 this morning. We took him outside and then back in his crate when we then slept until 7:00. The boys were delighted to see hit loves to play ball. He seems to know some basic commands fairly well. He sits pretty well on command and fetches and drops the ball. He has clearly decided I am his Alpha Mama and follows me everywhere I go. We are exhausted but so happy.



Thursday, July 10, 2008



Last night was amazing. I went with my friend Kyler to see the Sex and the City Movie downtown. I was a late bloomer to the show. We have never had cable that gives us HBO so the year I was pregnant with sal 2004-2005 we Netflixed the entire run of the show. Start to finish. I loved it. Needless to say I was excited to see the movie. Now this isn't any kind of Oscar nod movie or anything but it isn't trying to be. It was a perfect slice of escapism that I needed in my life at that moment.

Being home with my kids full time I seldom get a break. I was giddy all day yesterday knowing I was going to be picked up at 6:00. JB was coming home from work early so I had dinner ready for 5:30 and I was out the door at 6:00. I put on a cute summer dress and jumped in the car with a smile on my face knowing I would be free of dishes, dinner clean up and all bed time routines.

The movie was what I expected. Predictable but fun. The fashions were fabulous and I laughed a lot. It was light and refreshing with themes of forgiveness and friendship thrown in.

I came home with a skip in my step. JB and I enjoyed a beer on the deck while enjoying the cooler evening air. I felt free for a moment and it was delightful.

Kyler and I made plans to see Mama Mia when it comes out. I am already counting down the days.

Monday, July 07, 2008




It is hot hot hot in VT today and I have popsicles on the mind.

I just found a great source for BPA free popsicle molds. I am going to order me up some.

Save money by making your own and save your kid from all the artificial colorings and flavorings they put in store bought. But make sure you get the BPA free ones.

Friday, July 04, 2008

Meet Zimo



Zimo will soon be the newest addition to our family. We rescued him from TN. He will soon be making the long trip to the North East and we pick him up next Saturday. He is a 3 month old lab mix. We are in love and can't wait to meet him. His given name is Winston but the kids made up Zimo and so it will be.

These pictures were taken by the shelter in TN where he is now. It has been a long hard search for us to find the right dog. It feels really good to be helping this little guy out.

Tuesday, July 01, 2008

Vacation Review







I am back from vacation. We went to Ogunquit Maine for the week. It was so nice to get away but even better to come home. Taking a break and going away is such good perspective. I realize that despite living so far from the ocean I absolutely love where I live. Ogunquit was nice but a bit too upscale for my liking. They make going to the beach a very exclusive thing. Our cottage was in walking distance to one of the beaches in town if you didn't have two kids, blankets, a cooler and beach toys in tow. Given that walking wasn't an option to us we were stuck driving. Parking at the Ogunquit beaches sucks! All lots were $15 a day or there was one that was $4.00 an hour. What? That is insane. Other beaches I have been too on the Maine/NH seacoast were not like this at all. I found it all to be a bit exclusive. Luckily we ended up finding York Beach which was the next town over and we loved it. It was much more our speed. The parking situation was meters right up against the beach and it only cost $1.00 an hour. Now that was more like it.

Leaving my hometown also makes me realize how crappy the food is in most other places. Being a vegetarian is hard in America. Most of the restaurants cater towards seafood and steak of course so it was pizza for us when we decided to dine out. We found a breakfast spot called The Egg & I in Ogunquit that supposedly had been voted the best breakfast in Southern Maine. I beg to differ. I had an omelet with cheddar cheese, mushrooms and spinach and a side of home fries. I guess I am spoiled because where I come from you can actually get fresh ingredients in your food. The mushrooms in this omelet were from a can, the spinach was soggy like frozen spinach and the home fries were prepackaged frozen home fries. It was nasty. Honestly it was no better than eating at Denny's or a place like that.

At times I wished we had just stayed in our beautiful state and just rented a place on the lake. Where enjoying the water is more accessible and the food is real. We did have a good time though. We took the kids to Strawberry Banke in Portsmouth NH. Oh and if you are ever in Portsmouth you MUST eat at The Friendly Toast. Amazing. Truly amazing. I finally found a restaurant that cooks real food! Great vegetarian options too. We also took the kids to York Wild Kingdom. Kind of a cheesy place but the kids loved it. It was fun to be able to do things with the kids they don't normally do. Arcades, ice cream - most limits were off that week. We all came home with belly aches and 3 extra pounds for me (boo-hoo). I crave fresh vegetables and fruits. Thank goodness it is farm pick up day for us at our CSA Farmshare.

Coming home was wonderful. My yard and garden exploded while we were gone. I have monster tomato plants, small peppers growing, peas and beans reaching for the sky, salad mix begging to be picked and strawberries and blueberries growing plump and juicy. I spent the next day mowing, weeding and harvesting. It was delightful. It was nice getting away but it was wonderful coming home.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

After the storm


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Originally uploaded by John & Kacey
We had crazy storms yesterday which included a tornado watch. Tornado watch in VT? It was a bit scary. By early evening the storms had come to a calm point and the sun was setting before the next one came through. This was taken outside out front window.

VT - heaven on earth


VT - heaven on earth
Originally uploaded by John & Kacey
This is why I love Vermont so much. Taken from the top of Mt Philo.

Monday, June 09, 2008

Father's Day Eco-Green gifts from A-Z

Here is the ultimate list in eco and green gifts for father's day from ecobites.com

fathers-day--273px.jpgAn alphabet of gift ideas that include not only things to make and selections of home grown produce but also offers of your love, labour and energy to perform chores for Dad and Grandpa - a gift of precious time that will always be welcome.

Spending the day with Dad on Dad's Day is probably the best way to celebrate him. If you want to treat Dad to something extra special, search your soul, and ask yourself, what would he really like? Instead of supporting the overconsumerism, how about showing Dad you love him with a truly sustainable gift.


A APRONS are always handy for the busy grill / BBQ cook, or sew a serviceable one in strong calico or canvas for the gardener or handydad.

A whole case of your own grown fruit or vegies.

A family video or DVD of the children with Dad or Grandpa, wrapped with a packet of organic popcorn and seasoning mix 1/4 cup dried basil, 1/4 cup dried marjoram, 1/4 cup dried thyme,1/2 cup nutritional yeast powder, 1/4 cup garlic powder,1 /8 cup kelp powder. In a grinder, grind basil, marjoram and thyme and mix well with the rest of the ingredients. Store in an airtight glass container away from heat and light. Attach the following instructions on a homemade gift tag. Sprinkle on lightly buttered popcorn and enjoy! (add a small bottle of organic coconut oil - organic popcorn, popped in coconut oil is just delish! no need for butter).

A simply-framed photograph or child's painting.

ADOPTIONS For fathers who are as 'wise as an owl' as 'strong as a lion' or as 'lovable as a grizzly bear'.World Wildlife Fund (WWF) is making it easy for people to salute and celebrate the special men in their lives for Father's Day. Symbolic animal adoptions in support of a worthy cause are a great way to honor a great father while protecting the environment. www.worldwildlife.org/gifts.

ALTERNATIVE material products: recycled, organic, heritage plants, do-it-yourself or handcrafted from local markets.

B BREAKFAST IN BED Pamper your husband, Dad, brother, or friend with a breakfast in bed on Father's Day!

BAKE something special, a pie with "We love Daddy" or using refrigerated organic bread dough, have your child make different shapes, such as braids, hearts, circles, maybe spell out "DAD", "#1 DAD". Bake according to the package instructions. These fresh-out-of-the-oven creations can be served to Dad as part of breakfast in bed on Father's Day. Bake a special cake, cookies, scones or whatever is your Dad's favourite treat.

Make a personalized BOOK. Children can cut pictures of things out of magazines and then glue into the book.Cut up some old photographs (or copy some photos or print from your computer) and glue their heads on other bodies, animals etc, and make a unique story book for Dad or Grandpa.

BIRD SEED (organic millet) for those Dad's who enjoy bird watching.

BOOKMARKS If Dad is fond of reading, then a personalized bookmark would just be apt for the occasion. There can be distinctive types of bookmarks like a bird bookmark, sporting bookmark. Add a gift voucher from Dad's favourite book store.Or a gently used book purchased from a charity store. Or a homemade voucher for a weekly library visit.

BASKETS Grapevine baskets made from own grapevine, and fill with Dad's favourite organic homemade and local treats.

BEER Home brew or local organic.

BICYCLE Sport-utility bikes with a tail for Dad's lugging a briefcase or groceries.
http://www.xtracycle.com/index.php

Team it up with a BPA-free reusable stainlees steel water bottle - the plastic alternative for Dad whilst running, on the bike etc.

http://www.kleankanteen.com/


BREAKFAST in bed every Sunday for a month.

C CELEBRATING Father's Day gives you a chance to celebrate all the important men in your life. Show each of them how much you care by surprising them with a unique and personal gift that will be remembered for years to come. Remember elderly neighbours, teachers, coaches and friends with a small homemade gift.

CHOCOLATES After-dinner treats such as chocolate-covered organic brazil nuts and organic strawberries – just melt some organic chocolate in a bowl over just-simmering water, skewer your nut, strawberry (or organic dried fruit), and dip into the melted chocolate. Then lay on greaseproof paper to set. Place in decorated jars, baskets or homemade boxes.

Chocolate DIY or organic fairtrade. A box of your chocolate creations makes a delicious personalised gift for the chocolate loving Dad.

CERTIFICATE "Cookie of the Month" certificate along with one dozen cookies. Come the beginning of each month, bake a different kind of cookie / chocolate etc.

CRAFT You can really make any craft eco-friendly by choosing papers and supplies that are environmentally friendly. Such as, use what you have! We all have bits of paper, odds and ends everywhere. Use recycled paper, ribbon, fabric etc bought from thrift shops, too. Source items found from nature.

CHILD'S HAND PRINT

Mix 1/2 cup salt, 1 tablespoon organic coconut oil, and 1/4 cup water in a large bowl; when mixed add 1 cup organic flour and knead well.

Form dough into a softball-sized shape and roll out with a rolling pin. Press your child's hand into the clay (with fingers spread).

Bake at 250 degrees F. for several hours. After it's cooled your child can paint the handprint using eco-friendly paint. Label the handprint with your child's name, age, year the handprint was created, etc. You can also etch into the clay before baking something like "Hands down best Dad" or "Handy Dad".

CARDS Make beautiful Father's Day cards from a brown paper bag / any old paper / recycled board / fabric and some ribbon.
Brown paper (from a grocery bag) or paper or card or fabric scraps etc.
Pinking shears or scissors
A hole punch, Ribbon (about 1/4 inch wide) or thick yarn
Markers or crayons
Cut a large shape from brown paper or fabric using pinking shears. Using a hole punch, make a series of holes around the edges of the card. Make an even number of holes. String ribbon or yarn through the holes. Tie the ends in a bow if desired (this is the hardest part of this project). If the bow doesn't look good, you can glue the ends of the ribbon to the back of the card instead. Write a message, paste a photo (or the children can draw a picture) on the card.

Glue pictures from old cards onto homemade or store-bought recycled paper to create new cards.
Glue paper on the inside of old cards to cover previous writing--and use them again.

Make a greeting card or gift tag from scrap paper, fabric or wallpaper. For short Dad quotes use a large leaf or flat stone. Make cards or gift tags from pieces of a food box.

COUPONS Make up coupons that Dad can redeem for everything from a hug to weeding the garden and taking out the trash, whatever comes from the heart. Use a hole punch and ribbon, a stapler, or paper brads to hold your coupons together. Breakfast in Bed Coupon, Walking the dog Coupon, An hour of silence Coupon, One hour control of the remote control, Big hug Coupon.

Ask Dad what he would like added to the coupons. Once you have Dad's requests, all you have to do is make them a reality!

CAR WASH KIT

Here's what you need:

Paper towels / newspaper
Sponge
Old cotton towels to use as rags
Ingredients for homemade car shampoo (eco-friendly or DIY dishwashing liquid and powdered laundry detergent, and water), each should be chlorine- and phosphate-free and non-petroleum-based.
Spray bottle of eco window cleaner / (vinegar and water)
Homemade car air freshener (craft foam, cookie cutter, scissors, essential oil, hole puncher, string)
Make some vouhers for Dad to redeem when he is not using a commercial eco friendly car wash
Recycled bucket to display all the items

HOW TO MAKE CAR SHAMPOO
In a bucket, mix one-third cup (.16 pint) of dishwashing liquid, one-quarter cup (.12 pint) of powdered laundry detergent, and one gallon (eight pints) of water. This concentrate can then be used sparingly with water over exterior car surfaces.

Even when using green-friendly cleaners, it is better to avoid the driveway and instead wash Dad's car on the lawn or over dirt so that the toxic waste water can be absorbed and neutralized in soil instead of flowing directly into storm drains or open water bodies. Also, try to sop up or disperse those sudsy puddles that remain after you’re done. They contain toxic residues and can tempt thirsty animals.

HOW TO MAKE A CAR AIR FRESHENER
Trace the shape of a cookie cutter onto craft foam, then cut out the shape.
With an adult's permission, spray the foam with essential oil and water several times. Let dry.
Punch a hole at the top and tie a string through the hole.
Hang the air freshener from the car's rearview mirror.

CAR WASH Vouchers from an eco-friendly car wash, will give Dad and the environment a rest.

D DONATE to a charity in Dad’s name. Help non-profits that are helping the planet, and keep stuff Dad doesn’t need from clogging his closets, or worse, landfills.

http://www.changingthepresent.org/

http://www.earthjustice.org/ Because the earth needs a good lawyer.

http://www.charitynavigator.org/index.cfm/bay/topten.list.htm

http://www.2020vision.org/

DOLLARS $ Buy a subscription to an organisation working to make the world a better place such as the RSPB, RSPCA or Oxfam. Buy a homemade or fairtrade present. A bird table, compost bin, worm farm etc.

If you do not have time and inspiration for homemade gifts ... Support LOCAL and sustainable businesses.

E ENERGY (in the form of Eco job vouchers), ie. 'I promise to mow the lawn for one month' or 'I promise to tend the compost heap for one month' or 'I promise to rake the leaves for one month'.

F FRAMING that “great photo of you and Dad,” or “Dad and the fish,” and top if off with a handwritten, heartfelt message, either in a corner of the photo, or on the back of the frame.

FRESH-PRODUCE subscription from a local organic farm.

Many farms offer produce subscriptions, where buyers receive a weekly or monthly basket of produce, flowers, fruits, eggs, milk, coffee, or any sort of different farm products.

http://www.localharvest.org/csa/

G GIFT WRAPPING IDEAS Use your imagination to present your homemade gifts in reusable materials that Dad can re-use.

Consider using used products from around the home -- blueprints, wallpaper and fabric scraps, brown paper, newspaper, butchers paper (that the children can help decorate), graph paper, rice paper, children's drawings, old maps, old sheet music, A3 or A4 paper (cut out the used print or paint or glue pictures if printed both sides, children can draw on one side) for attractive effects. Use ribbon, string, rope, wool, instead of stickey tape.

Make your own gift boxes from cereal and tissue boxes. Juice cartons (in quart or half-gallon size or juice boxes). These make interesting containers if you're giving small size gifts (vouchers or eco promises in the juice boxes) or bigger gifts. Have children take any recycled board or paper and glue to decorate the cartons with a solid colour and then they can cut out shapes. Or they can glue on buttons or glitter or anything you have around the house to personalize it for that special Dad or Grandpa.

GIFT BAGS For some really fun bags, start cutting up some of that worn out clothing and sewing together into rectangular pieces. You choose the size bags you want and then sew up the fabric on three sides like a pillowcase. I've found a bag that is 18 inches by 24 inches is the most useful for giving everything from clothing to books. Turn right side out put in a gift and tie at the top with some ribbon or yarn. After you give the gift, Dad can return the bag and you wash, fold and put away until the next ocassion.

GIFT BOX filled with hand-written letters of all your favourite memories.

GIFT CERTIFICATES to an organic restaurant, movie tickets, Dad's favourite sporting team tickets.

GRILL AND CHILL prepare Dad's favourite meal and kick back with an organic cool one on the deck. Pump up the Rat Pack tunes, and reminisce about a few of your favourite times spent together.

Give a unique experience. GIFT BOX of Dad's favourite foods / drinks / photo album of past memories /memory jar, write notes of all your favourite memories.

Green Dads often have GREEN THUMBS. Help Dad start or maintain a garden. Buy his favourite organic seedlings (whether it's fruits, vegies, herbs, or even flowers) and help plant them. Flowers like nasturtium do triple duty as a beautiful and colourful garden decoration.Nasturtiums attract aphids and can also be added to salads and stir fry.

GREEN book for Father's day and plant a tree from http://www.ecolibris.net
If Dad collects books, we know that they're made of paper, and that paper comes from trees. Raz Godelnik noticed - he thinks green - and he wanted to balance his books with new trees. So he started the website Eco-Libris, anyone can donate money to plant trees to offset book purchases.

H HANDMADE GIFTS Many ideas for things start from items you might see at Ecobites, in magazines or elsewhere, add your own touch, and you have an original gift.

Perfect for small children, a homemade gift is sure to warm a Daddy's heart and the energy saved by not buying a manufactured item will ease any eco-friendly conscious.

HOMEMADE CARDS Cut out suitable pictures from old cards, or use an old photograph of yourself (baby pictures are good to use, if you have some) and stick onto recycled paper to make a card. Or else make a home-made card using your very own artwork (and verse, or quote).

HERBS FOR DAD

It is hard to find herbal gifts for men that are not flowery and overperfumed but this recipe imparts drawers a fresh outdoor scent that is guaranteed to cheer up even the most disreputable socks and jocks collection. All ingredients must be dried first, including the lemon peel.

1 cup lemon verbena leaves or eau de cologne mint

1/2 cup pine wood shavings

1/2 cup African marigold petals

2 tablespoons lemon peel

2 tablspoons rock salt

2 tablspoons ground ginger (optional)

Break lemon peel up into small pieces. Tear wood shavings into small pieces.

Mix all ingredients together and store in a covered container for 10 days.

Make up one or two square sachets from fine, closely woven cotton, ladle in herbal mix, sew end firmly.

If you do not sew, cut out several 15 cm (6 in) squares of material, trim edges with pinking shears and tie together with braid, yarn or ribbon.

HEALING MASSAGE OIL Great for the athletic Dad, excellent for muscle aches and stiff joints.

2-inch piece fresh ginger
1/2 cup almond oil

Grate ginger and combine with oil in a small, nonmetallic saucepan. Cover and simmer over low heat for 1 hour. Remove from heat and steep for another hour. Strain oil to remove bits of ginger. Using a nonmetallic funnel, pour liniment into a four-ounce glass bottle with a tight-fitting screw top. Attach the following instructions on a gift tag: To use, gently massage the oil into affected area twice a day until symptoms have disappeared.

I Write out IOUs on recycled paper or card. Offer gardening, seasonal meal prepared, day out at the library, museum, art exhibition, whatever takes Dad's fancy.

Download ITUNES http://www.apple.com/itunes/download/

J JUMPERS hand knitted with love.

K KNITTED slippers or socks.

Make a KITE with Dad and go have some fun!

L LIQUEUR in fancy bottles - homemade. Add damsons or other fruit to organic gin, vodka or organic spirit of your Dad's choice.

LONGLASTING, recycled and recyclable "ANYTHING".

M MEMBERSHIPS in green causes.

MASSAGE neck and shoulders, head, feet or more.

N NATURAL, organic, seasonal or local foods cookbook for the gourmet loving Dad.

NO COST GIFTS lovingly crafted from homemade or recycled materials.

O ORGANIC Heirloom seedlings. Organic gardening supplies.

Organic gardening kit with organic seeds, tools and a book about companion planting, composting, or native plants for the new green thumb Dad.

ONLINE gift vouchers are always a safe bet, and you’ll save wrapping paper to boot.

Would Dad prefer another silk tie or a ORANGUTAN? The ideal gift where we can make a difference, for example, support the wonderful work being done to protect and preserve the remaining orangutan population and the rainforests of Borneo and Sumatra visit any of the following websites:

Orangutan Foundation International

www.orangutan.org

Orangutan Foundation UK

www.orangutan.org.uk

Boneo Orangutan Survival (BOS) Foundation

www.savetheorangutan.co.uk

Australian Orangutan Project

http://www.orangutan.org.au/seeing.html

P PARK and museum passes (waste-free gifts).

PEN OR PENCIL HOLDER Rinse an empty can out and smooth away any sharp edges around the top. Let the children decorate with cut out motifs or left over scraps of material or found items from nature.

PEN STAND Sand the edges of a piece of scrap pine ( 14 x 6 cm is a handy size). Rule a line down the centre and mark off the holes. Carefully drill holes wide enough for pencils or pens to fit it. Paint with eco-friendly paints or decorate with the children's help!

PLANT a tree for Dad that will last a lifetime.

PICNIC BASKET fully stocked and head for your nearest picnic or fishing spot and enjoy the day with Dad! For the fishing Dad add fishing LURES made from old bottle caps. The Bottle Cap Lure Company helps promote a clean environment while creating championship fishing lures

http://www.bottlecaplure.com/

PHOTO FRAME insert a favourite photo and decorate the frame.Write a message on the back of the frame.

PLACEMATS Have your child draw a picture, colour a design, or write a poem to Dad on a heavy piece of 8 x 1/2" x 11" cardboard. Place the finished product between two sheets of clear contact paper. Use the placemat to serve Dad his next meal, maybe Father's Day breakfast in bed.

PHOTO CUBE Take 6 x 3 1/2" floppy disks. Lay one disk face down and glue four disks (one disk to each side) and glue the last disk on the top to make a box. Cut 5 pieces of construction paper so they fit on the floppy disk, leaving the metal at the bottom exposed. Cut out 5 photographs of family members so they are the same size as the construction paper. Use double-stick tape to attach one picture to each piece of construction paper and then use the double-stick tape to tape one picutre onto each side and onto the top floppy. This makes a nice gift for Dad to have on his desk at work.

Q QUICHE baked to your favourite recipe, to pack in the Father's Day picnic hamper.

R RECIPE BOX filled with your favourite organic, seasonal, local food recipes, for the gourmet chef Dad.

REDUCE – for children - maybe a promise not to pester for toys, trainers or clothes for the next three months and to make use of what’s in the household already?

RECYCLE – maybe a promise to sort out cans, bottles or newspapers for refuse collections or for taking to a recycling centre for the next three months?

Check with local government for recycling programs and sign Dad up for one.

REUSE - a reusable cotton carrier bag.

REPLACE - replace incandescent light bulbs with eco friendly options.

S SEND an email greeting and invitation to spend the day together.

SUBSCRIPTIONS to green publications.

SEEDS Selection of seeds saved from the garden, in marked packets with comical sketch on packet.

SOLAR POWERED GADGETS. SOLAR RAIN GUARD. The Orbit Solar Powered Rain Sensor will switch off Dad's lawn sprinklers when it rains. Yep, no longer will Dad have to dash outside in his coat and slippers with a newspaper over his head to struggle furiously with a tap, this puppy will do it all for him. Automagically.

Stop wasting water during unexpected rainstorms. By connecting a rain sensor to your irrigation system, sprinklers can shut off automatically when it starts raining, so you won’t be watering your lawn unnecessarily. Best of all, the Solar Wireless Rain/Freeze Sensor requires no electricity or connection wires, so it sets up in minutes and won’t add to monthly utility bills.

http://www.smarthome.com/31261.html

STATIONERY Tree free stationery and soy based ink pens.

http://www.ecopaper.com/

T TIME just spend the afternoon chatting and sharing time together.

For the golfing enthusiast Dad, have a bonding day on the course . . . as said in an article in Golf Digest, “In an era in which the family unit is being kidnapped by forces ranging from the 60-hour work week to the PlayStation, it is the golfer who still has the greatest capacity to celebrate Father’s Day.” Give recycled or Eco golf balls with a homemade voucher "Afternoon spent on the golf course". For RECYCLED GOLF BALL...

http://shopgreen.pricegrabber.com

ECO GOLF BALL ....the Water-Soluble polymer used to make up the Eco Golf Ball is verified by microorganism testing to be non-toxic and does not restrain from the growth of microorganism and can be degraded totally.The Eco Golf Ball has no bad effects on the environment. Once the ball is dessolved in water, specific microorganism will cause it turn into carbon dioxide and water.The Eco Golf Ball is 100% safe to marine life. http://ecogolfballs.com/

TOILETRIES Eco-friendly, Keep Dad looking good and feeling good with no man-made nasties! Make your own or check out http://www.male-organics.com/

U UNUSUAL potted plant, bromeliad, venus fly- trap, or a pitcher plant.

UNDERWEAR If Dad needs some new duds, give sustainable. Organic -

http://www.ecobodywear.com/mens/munderwear.html

100% Hemp Boxers

http://www.rawganique.com/CLmensunderwear.htm

Organic Cotton and Bamboo Underwear

http://www.spiritofnature.co.uk/acatalog/sect12310.html

V VINEGARS AND OILS Make up herbal vinegars and organic salad oils in glass jars with sprigs of rosemary, tarragon, parsley, etc and season with garlic and peppercorns for the gourmet loving Dad.

W WINE Home-brewed, in fancy bottle and personalized labels. Local organic wine.

WIND CHIMES made from pottery discs or anything recycled that takes your fancy, or a wind sock.

X X-TRAORDINARY Homemade Gifts are also extremely appreciated by their recipients because of the time, care and love taken in the making.

Y YOURSELF There's some of you in every homemade gift, because of the pleasure in the making and the giving.

YOUR undivided attention for a whole hour to do anything Dad wishes!!

Z ZANY hand printed organic T shirt.

ZESTY HERBS hand picked from the garden and turned into culinary delights - pesto, to accompany a fresh home baked herb loaf for Father's Day on the grill BBQ lunch.

The nicest gifts are always those that have been handmade, fashioned by the hands of the giver and full of warm vibrations. Making your own need not be expensive or difficult. It just requires imagination and a little skill. The varied homemade ideas we have included here should start you on the absorbing and productive path. Traditionally, gifts are given by children to their fathers, but does Dad really need another silk tie? According to The Green Guide, more than half of Dads say they have never received a "good" gift, and the average cost of a Father's Day gift is $89.00. Running out of time or inspiration to create a homemade gift for Dad, spend the dollars with a waste-free gift that Dad or an Eco organization will appreciate.

Don't sweat the gift-aspect just let Dad know that you’re thinking of him, and you love him. Enjoy the day, and celebrate Dad with your heart, however you know best.

Happy Father's Day!

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Garden Updates

Oh how I have been enjoying this season. Each day I crave digging in the dirt, transforming my yard, and growing fresh organic veggies for my family. Gardening cleanses my soul. There is nothing better than going out to my herb garden while I am cooking and picking some fresh herbs to add to the meal. Here are some photos to show how it is going so far. I am trying many new things this year.

I decided to try my hand at two raised beds this year. I put them in a different spot away from my other gardens to see how they do. The one on the left has tomatoes, green peppers, hot peppers, radishes and squash. The bed on the right is my baby lettuce bed. I plant baby lettuce seeds alternating sides every two weeks.

The structure on the left has peas, the one on the left has beans. There are two strawberry plants, chives and several garlic plants. In the very front row will grow corn and sunflowers.
My garden fort is growing. I can't wait until this is covered with lovely flowering vines.

This was my latest project. The front of this garden section is filled with chives, basil, lemon balm, Italian parsley, cilantro and lavender. Behind the herbs is a new edible flower garden I just planted yesterday. Behind that is two rows of pumpkins, one row of corn and two cucumber plants.


Happy gardening.

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

What's in a name?



This weekend I had the pleasure of traveling to a family gathering for my mother's Italian side. The Grasso/Locicero family. My great grandparents moved to NH from Sicily when they were in their late teens. My great grandmother was a Locicero and my great grandfather a Grasso. I was too young to remember my great grandfather but I have many memories of visits to my grandma Grasso's house as we called her. Her first name was Vincenza. I was too young to really absorb and realize how much I had around me at the time. Instead as a young child I was easily annoyed that I could not understand her broken English and every time she pinched my cheeks I wanted to scream. The many large meals we had at her house though were unforgettable.

In Italy it is tradition to pass down family names to the children. When they came to America though most of this tradition stopped. My great grandparents carried it on. They gave birth to Salvatore (my grandfather), Mary, Camile and Rosario. It was this generation however who chose more American names for their kids. I am assuming in order to have them become more "Americanized".

When I married I did something I never thought I would do and I took my husbands last name. When I was younger I used to wish my mother had hyphenated our last names so I could have used her maiden name as well as my father's. I found it unfair that the women marries and gives up her name. The one identifier of her past. I have been thinking of switching my name back for years now. I mean no disrespect to my husband and his family. I only wish to hold on to mine as well.

Some people move their maiden name to be their middle name. This is an option for me but I don't want to lose my middle name either. I think the only thing to do is to have several names as I have given my children. So I believe I will add my mother's maiden name of Grasso to my middle name and then add my maiden name of Freel and maybe hyphenate it with my current last name. I'm sure it will confuse people but I don't really care. I have never been one to do anything normal anyway.

What's in a name?



This weekend I had the pleasure of traveling to a family gathering for my mother's Italian side. The Grasso/Locicero family. My great grandparents moved to NH from Sicily when they were in their late teens. My great grandmother was a Locicero and my great grandfather a Grasso. I was too young to remember my great grandfather but I have many memories of visits to my grandma Grasso's house as we called her. Her first name was Vincenza. I was too young to really absorb and realize how much I had around me at the time. Instead as a young child I was easily annoyed that I could not understand her broken English and every time she pinched my cheeks I wanted to scream. The many large meals we had at her house though were unforgettable.

In Italy it is tradition to pass down family names to the children. When they came to America though most of this tradition stopped. My great grandparents carried it on. They gave birth to Salvatore (my grandfather), Mary, Camile and Rosario. It was this generation however who chose more American names for their kids. I am assuming in order to have them become more "Americanized".

When I married I did something I never thought I would do and I took my husbands last name. When I was younger I used to wish my mother had hyphenated our last names so I could have used her maiden name as well as my father's. I found it unfair that the women marries and gives up her name. The one identifier of her past. I have been thinking of switching my name back for years now. I mean no disrespect to my husband and his family. I only wish to hold on to mine as well.

Some people move their maiden name to be their middle name. This is an option for me but I don't want to lose my middle name either. I think the only thing to do is to have several names as I have given my children. So I believe I will add my mother's maiden name of Grasso to my middle name and then add my maiden name of Freel and maybe hyphenate it with my current last name. I'm sure it will confuse people but I don't really care. I have never been one to do anything normal anyway.

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Happy Birthday to me!

birthday apple tree

Today is my birthday! Hooray hooray! So far I am having a rockin' time. Here's why:

  • I got this awesome new table cloth and cloth napkins I wanted from Crate & Barrel from my sister in law
  • My kids made my day this morning just being all cute and excited about it being my birthday.
  • My husband got me the new Madonna CD. It freakin' rocks.
  • I had a soy latte and amazing muffin with my youngest son at my favorite local coffee shop this morning.
  • Then I bought an apple tree with the gift card to Gardener's Supply my in laws got me. I have always wanted an apple tree. I am psyched.

All this and it is only 10:51am. My husband says he has a surprise for tonight. I can't wait to see what it is.

Happy Birthday to me!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Happy birthday little

This week we celebrated my youngest son's 3rd birthday but two days before would have been my oldest child's 8th birthday. We lost her due to a miscarriage. Ironically she died the exact same day my oldest son was born. My husband and I have always made a flower bouquet from our garden on that day but from this year on we are choosing to celebrate what would have been her birthday instead. So this year on that day we chose to buy a plant and add it to our garden in celebration of her. She left us too early but her memory lives on. I honor her and treat her as if she was my child. She was my first experience with pregnancy and losing her was devastating. It happened very early in our relationship and it was because of her that my husband and I bonded so strongly and stuck together. We married later that year and gave birth to our first son exactly two years later.

Her name is "little" and will always be little. Thank you little for coming into our lives. Even though your time with us was short we love you just as much as if you were with us today.

Happy 8th birthday.

We love you so much.

xoxo
I was interviewed for a small piece that was done in our local paper on Moms and social networking sites. Read the story here.